Betwixt and Between: How to Navigate Life's Transitions
Simply allowing yourself to sit quietly in the in-between times allows you to make meaning of what has passed, and to prepare for what is coming.
How to Publish Your Own Book
Four years ago, I began writing a book.* I had something close to a first draft when I took it to a writer’s group. That first day, one of the members arrived late; she looked as if she had just been spit out of a terrible tornado and plopped, disheveled and wide-eyed, into a corn field. The cause of her distress? She had just published her first book.
Finding Trust
Trust is tricky. It’s all very easy to have trust when everything is going swimmingly; it’s another thing altogether to maintain total trust when you’re hanging on by your fingernails.
On Sex and Success: An Ode to Mothers
I’ve long struggled with the definition of success defined as money and fame. Perhaps real success is all in how you define it.
Owning Your Shadow: The Downton Abbey Dilemma
The peek into turn-of-the-century Edwardian life—a life so radically different from our current age—is mesmerizing. I could say that I am ensorcelled by all of the above, but it’s more than that, I fear.
Giving and Forgiving: No Strings Attached
Forgiveness is how we unblock all the damned up energy inside; it loosens the logjam and restores the natural flow of giving and receiving.
Middle Age Is For The Birds (And that's a good thing)
One of the more interesting phenomena of middle age is the recognition of just how very stupid and arrogant you have been up to wherever you find yourself near the halfway point.
Watch That First Step, It's a Doozy! Practicing Non-Judgment
It’s not easy being spiritual …
The Pleasure of Discovering Your Real, True Life
“We must be willing to let go of this life we have planned in order to have the life that is waiting for us.”
The Power of Thought: Manifesting Your Dreams
We dream our world into being with every thought, every wish, every desire — and every fear. This is because where attention goes, energy flows,
Ego vs. Soul: A Balancing Act
Our ego wants to stay comfortable, it wants to take care of number one. But the soul has higher aspirations. Which do we choose?
The New SEO: 8 Steps to A More Soulful Life
How do we find Soul in a noisy, gadget-gawking, consumption-oriented society that constantly pulls our attention away from our inner life?
Soul Matters: Finding Your Essence
Connecting with our soul animates us. Awakening to our soul’s desire we come into our perfection, our truth, our reason for being.
Where Are We Going, and Why Are We All in This Handbasket?
The horrible things do not negate the beauty of the world, but neither does the beauty negate the horror. They co-exist, and not necessarily in any sort of balance.
Transforming Through Trauma
It’s terrifying to lose what you valued, disorienting not to know who or where you are, frightening to face into the darkness, but it’s also freeing.
Thirty Thankful Days
Life is an energy exchange of giving and receiving. When we fail to offer sincere gratitude, we become disconnected and isolated. We lose our sense of place and connection.
The Depth and Breadth of Love
An essay on love, the truth of motherhood, and spiritual transformation.
The Tao of Baseball
Each of us has a unique and vital role to play in this life, but it’s imperative that we understand that we are all part of a much larger team.
What's Your Story?
The other day when a friend asked me how I was I had the disquieting experience of hearing my response. What I heard was a well-worn repetition of a tired story